The unfiltered truth about wedding planning

The unfiltered truth about wedding planning
(from someone who actually works in the industry)

Let’s get real for a sec…

If you're dreaming of a wedding with beautiful florals, epic golden hour portraits, Pinterest perfect tablescapes, and 10 hours of seamless, magical photography coverage… but your total budget is closer to $10k for everything… I’m gonna gently say:

we need to talk.

One things for sure, Weddings are beautiful. but They’re also expensive. And the internet (bless it) has created sky-high expectations on a tight squeeze budget.

so You might be thinking…

“We don’t need anything too fancy.”

But then you still want:

a full-day photo & video coverage, statement florals, custom signage, a curated dinner menu, stunning rentals,
and a party that feels straight out of a rom-com.

I get it. Truly. You deserve a celebration that reflects your love. But here’s what couples aren’t always told: The effortless look you see online isn’t effortless. It’s layered with time, intention, skill, and yes — budget.

but Let’s Clear some Things Up:

Photography and videography are two separate services.
Each requires different skills, gear, editing time, and creative vision. If you're expecting both from one person for 10+ hours at a $2k price point, you're not getting high-end. you're getting someone overworked and likely underqualified. (sad truth)

Be mindful that Your vendors aren’t magicians.
You can’t pay Target prices and expect a Vogue wedding. If someone is offering the whole package at a too-good-to-be-true rate, something is being sacrificed… often quality or care.

**“Affordable” doesn’t mean cheap.**

Even the most low-key backyard weddings still need coordination, rentals, timelines, and people to bring it all together. That cozy vibe? It still costs something to create.

The “look” you love comes from:

A thoughtful planner or coordinator, Professional photo & video teams, Stylists or rental companies
Time, and effort behind the scenes (not just a pretty filter)

So What Can You Do Instead?

✔️ Be honest about your budget and build your wedding around what matters most to you.
✔️ Let go of pressure to recreate the internet. Those dreamy weddings? Often cost $40k+.
✔️ Choose vendors who align with your vibe AND educate you. We’re not here to upsell, we’re here to set you up for success.
✔️ Be open to alternatives! Fewer guests, weekday dates, or elopements can stretch your budget beautifully.

Your love deserves to be celebrated well and realistically.

You don’t need a Pinterest perfect day. You need a day that feels true to you, with the right team by your side to document it.

And if you're down to do things with heart and intention (and a little flexibility)? You’re my kind of people. Let’s create something unforgettable — not because it’s “perfect,” but because it’s yours.